Thankful for Mom...Happy Birthday!!

Well, today if you will indulge me a little...I want to celebrate MY mom.  My mom is celebrating her 66th birthday today and I simply want to take a few moments to celebrate her and a little of what she means to me.

We are all familiar with Proverbs 31 and the description given of this wonderful lady.  I especially love the end of this chapter where we read the following verses,  "Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates."

I guess that I am using today to "arise up and call her blessed" because in my eyes and heart, well, she is.  I think God is so wise to give every person exactly what they need and that includes the choosing of our parents.  I have no doubt that my mom was chosen for me.  I have learned much from her life and I could never repay her for all she has done and sacrificed for me.

As I think about my mom, I am amazed at the steps the Lord used and every circumstance that came about in my mom's life to bring her to where she is today. My mom was born to teen parents.  She ended up being raised by her grandmother; who, in mom's eyes, was "mom".  She knew her dad, but did not have the privilege of living with him and having him raise her in a traditional sense.  She did not have any contact with her birth mom until she was nearly fifty years old.  Life was different for her as a girl in many ways and yet, it was all for a purpose.  Family is very important to my mom and as I have grown older and realized much more about her youth, I understand why.  I am thankful that she has taught me how important family truly is and that I should never take my family for granted.

Thankfully, grandma took mom to church and mom was saved as a girl still in school.  She didn't have a saved family nor was she surrounded by people who really helped her grow as a Christian, but God was with her and He helped her each step of the way leading her to the man she would marry and eventually, getting her and my dad in the church that would help them to grow as Christians.

My mom met my dad in the strangest of ways (well, it was God intended, but not your everyday fashion of meeting your mate).  There were names of GI's, who were serving overseas, on a bulletin board located in a local business and she randomly chose one of the names; began writing to him and well, the rest is history.  Seriously...this was how it happened!  Yet, over 40 years later they are still married and have been an example to me in longevity of marriage. 

Mom was and is a hard worker.  She has been her home church secretary for almost 30 years and she is amazing at what she does.  She helped my dad for some 15 years (maybe more) running a Pre-teen group at their church.  She taught in the Christian school for a time.  She helped with VBS.  She helped plan ladies meetings.  She and my dad ran the group called "Young at Heart" for those over fifty. She worked nursery faithfully for many years.  She has been invaluable to the church they attend.  There are many young people now grown and serving God that mom helped to influence in some way. 

Although, my mom did all of this and was VERY involved at church...she was ALWAYS home with us kids.  Her outside endeavors never conflicted with her raising a family and being at home...NEVER.  That is probably one of the things I am truly most grateful for learning from her.  I remember her telling me the importance of being home.  I could not begin to thank her for instilling this in me and helping me to see the high privilege and importance of being a wife and a mom. 

Looking back, I see how many times my mom went without something in order for us kids to have something better.  Mom helped others.  I remember us having a family live with us for a time after they suffered a house fire.  They were our friends and mom knew they needed us.  Mom was like that...looking for ways to help others. I remember going to visit shut-ins with mom. My mom knitted baby blankets for (what seems like) every lady in their church. Mom was selfless. 

As I said, my mom had difficult circumstances to overcome in life, but I do not remember her complaining to us.  She just did what needed done.  She taught us to not make excuses...just do what is right to do.  She supported my dad.  They may not always have agreed, but I knew she stood behind him and I learned early on not to "pit" my parents one against the other...there was no point. 

I am grown and have children of my own and yet, I still call mom.  I am still learning from mom. More than ever, I am still so very thankful for my mom!  I pray that as my own boys and my nieces and nephews grow up, they, too, will appreciate the heritage my mom has given them.  They are blessed to call her "Nana"!

So, as she celebrates another year of life, I wish her a year filled with happiness and wonderful things.  I pray that God allows her to know how very much she is loved and that she knows how thankful I am to be HER daughter!!

I LOVE YOU MOM!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

From My Heart, 
Robyn