tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-30328822870133598512024-02-06T20:39:44.731-06:00Reflections from the Robyn's NestA collection of thoughts God is teaching me on my journey through marriage, motherhood and ministry. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-79720081959509993352013-04-18T06:00:00.000-05:002013-04-18T06:00:16.064-05:00Help! I'm Losing My Hair...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIqGrsQvdxJkPka7GFQ3p1a7aeajV2wlCEqH451tYXaWAd_lFeaQ5dnvsZvAuLXEt5LzIBd3TvzQEEnErKC2fXRbgQw2RGY5xWhikLjxV-3xOEOFLkXx4MiN6TOF8-jUUQnul37EhcT60/s1600/sparrow.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjIqGrsQvdxJkPka7GFQ3p1a7aeajV2wlCEqH451tYXaWAd_lFeaQ5dnvsZvAuLXEt5LzIBd3TvzQEEnErKC2fXRbgQw2RGY5xWhikLjxV-3xOEOFLkXx4MiN6TOF8-jUUQnul37EhcT60/s200/sparrow.jpg" width="166" /></a>As I think about God, I am constantly overwhelmed by the fact that there is NOTHING He does not know about me. In His knowledge of me, there is NOTHING that He allows that is not for my good and more importantly, for His glory. <br />
Luke 12:1 states, "But even the very hairs of your head are all numbered. <strong><em>Fear not therefore</em></strong>: ye are of more value than many sparrows." Wow! The hairs on my head are numbered...meaning, there is nothing about me God does not know. This includes every little detail about me, even my hair!<br />
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I have been dealing with Graves disease for about two years now and it is a result of Hyperthyroidism. One of the side effects of this can be hair loss. Now, I realize there are far worse things in life, but lets be honest, for a girl, hair loss is a big deal. In the past two months, my hair loss has become increasingly worse. Pretty much everywhere I go, I tend to leave a trail of hair. My husband is amazed that I have any hair left. He joked with me the other day and said "when I lose hair, I end up bald...but, when you lose hair, you still have hair...how is that even possible?" Well, to be honest, I have no idea.<br />
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However, in thinking about this I was reminded of the verse I mentioned from Luke. <em>God knows every</em> last hair on my head and <em>I am of great value to Him</em>. Yet, the words "<strong><u>fear not therefore</u></strong>" that are sandwiched in the middle of the verse are what really jumped out to me this past month. You see all of us will face difficulties in life. <u><strong> It is during these times, it will become so important to remember that we have no need of fear because God knows us and He is with us.</strong></u><br />
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I know so many people who are going through such hardships...<br />
<em>sick and in the hospital for weeks now</em><br />
<em>health issues that have prevented pregnancy</em><br />
<em>dealing with newly diagnosed rheumatoid arthritis</em><br />
<em>severe hailstorm ruining the roof and cars </em><br />
<em>going through radiation for cancer</em><br />
<em>having a pacemaker put in</em><br />
<em>a baby born prematurely born and lungs not quite developed needing help to breathe</em><br />
<em>churches looking for new pastors</em><br />
<em>friends struggling financially due to job loss</em><br />
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The above are just a few examples from lives of people I know personally. So much hurt and yet, so much opportunity for us to really see God working and to realize all the more that He is in control. You see whether all is well or whether all is falling apart, God is there and He still knows how many hairs are on our heads...meaning, <strong><u>regardless of the circumstances of our lives...He is there!</u></strong> <br />
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For several months, I have been asking God for some very specific requests and answers to things on my heart. In doing so, I did not ask to be sick for an extended period of time. I did not ask to have to undergo major surgery in June. I did not ask for my hair to fall out. I did not ask for my home to flood a couple months ago. Yet, I am beginning to see that God has and is answering my prayers. He has been drawing me closer to Him and reminding me that <u><em>I need not fear the problems that come my way...for He is here beside me. I need not be afraid of what lies ahead...for He is there to lead the way.</em></u> <br />
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Sometimes, it is hard to trust when we cannot see, but <strong><em>the very thought that He knows the number of our hairs and that we are of value to Him is just enough to get us through the difficult days.</em></strong> So, the next time you want to holler out "Help! I'm Losing My Hair..." or whatever it is that you are going through, remember "FEAR NOT THEREFORE"...He is there! <br />
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<em>Friend, Hang in there because God is right there with you and you are going to make it!</em><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>From My Heart,</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-83604429057707954362013-02-14T16:00:00.000-06:002013-02-14T16:00:00.334-06:00He Loves Me; He Loves Me Not...<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1tf6upOF2c4d8iSY1FojBKUPOIfUb-Tm3wHRl4fqlu0AAXB39V5P5-nzeJp99CotqcrGL5RmvLEEID-QohAT0-vuqgGoMQ1H1iFEI-Zk3iYe1NDwfg2W8k44kEZKN3pFR-MoDWf6ty7k/s1600/Love.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj1tf6upOF2c4d8iSY1FojBKUPOIfUb-Tm3wHRl4fqlu0AAXB39V5P5-nzeJp99CotqcrGL5RmvLEEID-QohAT0-vuqgGoMQ1H1iFEI-Zk3iYe1NDwfg2W8k44kEZKN3pFR-MoDWf6ty7k/s1600/Love.jpg" /></a>Jeremiah 31:3 "The Lord hath appeared of old unto me, saying, Yea, <u><em><strong>I have loved thee with an everlasting love: </strong></em></u>therefore with lovingkindness have I drawn thee."<br />
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I John 3:16 "Hereby <strong><em><u>perceive we the love of God</u></em></strong>, because he laid down his life for us: and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren."<br />
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Today is the 14th of February...Valentine's Day! A day when many are giving and exchanging expressions of their love for one another. A day when others, who may not have that special someone, often feel a sense of loneliness. A day when children trade and exchange cute little cards and yummy little candies. A day when retailers rejoice in their sales. Today is what has been deemed "The Day of Love" so much so that it is a national holiday. <br />
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Do you remember as a little girl picking that certain flower and proceeding to pull off the petals one by one while saying, "he loves me; he loves me not"? I remember doing that and somehow as a little girl I became convinced this was do or die truth. Looking back, I think what a silly little ritual this was to determine whether someone loved another person. Yet, I realize that, at my core, and at the core of every person is a deep desire to be truly loved.<br />
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On this day, I am thankful that I KNOW that <u>I am LOVED and I am not only loved, but I am loved with an everlasting and unconditional love...by my Father God</u>. No matter what our relationship status or whether we spent today surrounded by someone special or it was simply just another day, each and every one of us truly has the greatest Valentine of all and that is the love of our Heavenly Father. <br />
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So, on this day, I have decided to think a little more specifically about what this day means to me:<br />
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1. This day means <u>knowing that I am forever loved by the One Who saved me</u> and gave His life for mine...there is no greater love. <br />
2. This day means <u>knowing that I have been given an earthly love</u> handpicked for me by my Father in Heaven...<u>Jack Bachman</u>, the man I was made to complete.<br />
3. This day means <u>knowing that I have been given the opportunity to share my love</u> for two amazing boys...<u>Ryan and Jordan</u>, the ones who call me mom.<br />
4. This day means <u>knowing that I am blessed to be a part of a family</u>...to share memories and create new ones with a father, mother, brother, sister and extended loved ones. <br />
5. This day means <u>knowing I am privilieged to serve God</u>...to share His love with others and watch as they grow in their walk and love for God.<br />
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Today has been extremely commercialized by this world. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy some chocolates and flowers as much as the next girl, but as I grow older I am realizing that there is so much more to this day...<br />
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I encourage you to take some time to think about ALL of the people in your life who are special and have touched you in some way. Don't wait for a holiday on the calendar to tell them you love them. Don't wait to buy a card which shares special sentiments. Don't wait...tell them now that you love them. Think about the people who have loved you and invested in you...thank them. Think about your family...love them, not just on this day, but everyday. Life is short and goes by faster than we realize. We are not guaranteed a tomorrow. Take advantage of everyday you have and invest in every person who is a part of your life...you will not regret the time or effort. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5SvlmjFKwP_xJvXFweKD3II3H4e8S_WYnC2FGAY_VtURNhVRywD7iP69KEF-99zW8GcbBXGKRVdPuAiKE7-0OZ0egqjAMWyEU8uX-ufz2mhaAF6mamT5H26FK3gLZSoZ1juKJyVWnEGE/s1600/Roses.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi5SvlmjFKwP_xJvXFweKD3II3H4e8S_WYnC2FGAY_VtURNhVRywD7iP69KEF-99zW8GcbBXGKRVdPuAiKE7-0OZ0egqjAMWyEU8uX-ufz2mhaAF6mamT5H26FK3gLZSoZ1juKJyVWnEGE/s1600/Roses.jpg" /></a>Most of all, today, as I look back at the flower petals let's just say that I am so thankful JESUS LOVES ME!! <br />
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Happy Valentines Day! May it be special and may we all learn to make <em>EVERYDAY a "Valentines Day" because in reality, that is what every day should be!</em><br />
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<em><span style="font-size: large;">From My Heart,</span></em><br />
<em><span style="font-size: large;">Robyn</span></em>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-28550876024821822732013-02-07T06:30:00.000-06:002013-02-07T06:30:00.355-06:00Thankful for Mom...Happy Birthday!!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3NDAGygq5F0AA5claXJhyePZsI7Qu_ULVVrI3h3BgY5YuGvNylGM7KFybsknr2s7uZpq3bUyq1RA81V7kMSCQ-Mhd7bHbpZ6rp_sa3s_hK95eSO_hvi8lsA5rTpLYQH0JdpJJzgRZ9KU/s1600/My+family.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3NDAGygq5F0AA5claXJhyePZsI7Qu_ULVVrI3h3BgY5YuGvNylGM7KFybsknr2s7uZpq3bUyq1RA81V7kMSCQ-Mhd7bHbpZ6rp_sa3s_hK95eSO_hvi8lsA5rTpLYQH0JdpJJzgRZ9KU/s1600/My+family.jpg" /></a>Well, today if you will indulge me a little...I want to celebrate MY mom. My mom is celebrating her 66th birthday today and I simply want to take a few moments to celebrate her and a little of what she means to me.<br />
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We are all familiar with Proverbs 31 and the description given of this wonderful lady. I especially love the end of this chapter where we read the following verses, <em>"Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and praiseth her. Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. Favor is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates."</em><br />
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I guess that I am using today to "arise up and call her blessed" because in my eyes and heart, well, she is. I think <u>God is so wise to give every person exactly what they need and that includes the choosing of our parents</u>. I have no doubt that my mom was chosen for me. I have learned much from her life and I could never repay her for all she has done and sacrificed for me.<br />
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As I think about my mom, I am amazed at the steps the Lord used and every circumstance that came about in my mom's life to bring her to where she is today. My mom was born to teen parents. She ended up being raised by her grandmother; who, in mom's eyes, was "mom". She knew her dad, but did not have the privilege of living with him and having him raise her in a traditional sense. She did not have any contact with her birth mom until she was nearly fifty years old. Life was different for her as a girl in many ways and yet, it was all for a purpose. Family is very important to my mom and as I have grown older and realized much more about her youth, I understand why. I am thankful that she has taught me how important family truly is and that I should never take my family for granted. <br />
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Thankfully, grandma took mom to church and mom was saved as a girl still in school. She didn't have a saved family nor was she surrounded by people who really helped her grow as a Christian, but God was with her and He helped her each step of the way leading her to the man she would marry and eventually, getting her and my dad in the church that would help them to grow as Christians. <br />
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My mom met my dad in the strangest of ways (well, it was God intended, but not your everyday fashion of meeting your mate). There were names of GI's, who were serving overseas, on a bulletin board located in a local business and she randomly chose one of the names; began writing to him and well, the rest is history. Seriously...this was how it happened! Yet, over 40 years later they are still married and have been an example to me in longevity of marriage. <br />
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<u>Mom was and is a hard worker</u>. She has been her home church secretary for almost 30 years and she is amazing at what she does. She helped my dad for some 15 years (maybe more) running a Pre-teen group at their church. She taught in the Christian school for a time. She helped with VBS. She helped plan ladies meetings. She and my dad ran the group called "Young at Heart" for those over fifty. She worked nursery faithfully for many years. She has been invaluable to the church they attend. There are many young people now grown and serving God that mom helped to influence in some way. <br />
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Although, my mom did all of this and was VERY involved at church...she was ALWAYS home with us kids. Her outside endeavors never conflicted with her raising a family and being at home...NEVER. That is probably one of the things I am truly most grateful for learning from her. I remember her telling me the importance of being home. I could not begin to thank her for instilling this in me and helping me to see the high privilege and importance of being a wife and a mom. <br />
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Looking back, I see how many times my mom went without something in order for us kids to have something better. Mom helped others. I remember us having a family live with us for a time after they suffered a house fire. They were our friends and mom knew they needed us. <u>Mom was like that...looking for ways to help others</u>. I remember going to visit shut-ins with mom. My mom knitted baby blankets for (what seems like) every lady in their church. Mom was selfless. <br />
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As I said, my mom had difficult circumstances to overcome in life, but I do not remember her complaining to us. She just did what needed done. <u>She taught us to not make excuses...just do what is right to do.</u> She supported my dad. They may not always have agreed, but I knew she stood behind him and I learned early on not to "pit" my parents one against the other...there was no point. <br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiep_XHA_1fy9zNoUQ9iHzoMysZsSpZ-Vp0MvOvSdke5t-5-Er12PyXlvSroTexVvZxVnqciVunSPiEh7JesVNoiNcFeJkOUlQ-EdTuEFjLS_pMz2SaL3BIdFoHL55rv7tMzQVAJZiyH7w/s1600/Grandkids+with+mom+and+dad.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiep_XHA_1fy9zNoUQ9iHzoMysZsSpZ-Vp0MvOvSdke5t-5-Er12PyXlvSroTexVvZxVnqciVunSPiEh7JesVNoiNcFeJkOUlQ-EdTuEFjLS_pMz2SaL3BIdFoHL55rv7tMzQVAJZiyH7w/s1600/Grandkids+with+mom+and+dad.jpg" /></a>I am grown and have children of my own and yet, I still call mom. I am still learning from mom. More than ever, I am still so very thankful for my mom! <em>I pray that as my own boys and my nieces and nephews grow up, they, too, will appreciate the heritage my mom has given them</em>. They are blessed to call her "Nana"!<br />
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So, as she celebrates another year of life, I wish her a year filled with happiness and wonderful things. I pray that God allows her to know how very much she is loved and that she knows how thankful I am to be HER daughter!!<br />
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<strong><em><span style="font-size: x-large;">I LOVE YOU MOM!! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!</span></em></strong><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">From My Heart, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Robyn</span><br />
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-72126212318422809092013-01-29T07:00:00.000-06:002013-01-29T07:00:02.792-06:00Exciting Days Ahead<em>AI Thessalonians 5:16 - 18 "Rejoice evermore. Pray without ceasing. In everything give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you."</em><br />
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Our church will be starting a new venture this week and recently I have had many thoughts going through my head about what the Lord has planned for our church. We are starting an extension church in a nearby city and will be reaching new people for the Lord. This is an exciting time in the life of our church. My husband is super excited about our future. :) <br />
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Our church people have put many hours in visiting and passing out flyers. Our men have gathered to pray. Our ladies have gathered to pray. My pastor husband has met with city representatives and shared his plan for our new church. Alot of time has gone into this first service that will take place this week. It is very exciting!<br />
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As I have prayed and thought about this new church...the above verses have continued to come to my mind. I realize that any good that comes of this will be all because of God. At the end of this same chapter in <em>verse 24</em> the Bible says, <em><u>"Faithful is he that calleth you, who also will do it."</u></em> You see anything that we do for the Lord is because of the Lord...He is the One Who makes all things happen. <br />
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From these verses I have been reminded that as I serve the Lord I need to do three things:<br />
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1. Rejoice - rejoice about the goodness of God and what He can accomplish through a life surrendered to His service.<br />
2. Pray - pray for His blessings and pray for His wisdom to do things the way He desires them to be done<br />
3. Give thanks - Thank God for all that He will do through our service to Him; we need to believe that He will do much through our efforts<br />
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So, this week as I stand beside my Preacher husband and with our church members, <u>I am claiming the Word of God as I am choosing to rejoice, as I am continuing to pray and as I am giving thanks for what God is going to do in and through this new church.</u> <br />
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I am nervous (because I am human), but I am excited about what God has planned for Calvary Baptist Church of Collierville, Tn. It is vital that we keep our eyes on God and keep busy serving Him because as is seen in the very first part of the chapter I mentioned from I Thessalonians 5, the Lord is coming back as a thief in the night. I don't know about you, but I want to be busy serving Him when He returns. <br />
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Let's face it, what matters for eternity is what we do for Christ!<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>From my Heart,</em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span><br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-40855168123610656682013-01-26T07:00:00.000-06:002013-01-26T07:00:03.835-06:00Focus on the Blessings<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqBCrTOOhiYjcGQjoWa4T5ZzQaYlhzAfvF-TWSihlesLK472Es6WXcEomZPdr2Qs4MStxOXvJUzB0goJ0LRTXUy4zF-mWX0vb2xndwbatfdwMF13AMxjn-kaUicNelTJD0jRobF638Q4M/s1600/iPhone+3+pics+230.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="300" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiqBCrTOOhiYjcGQjoWa4T5ZzQaYlhzAfvF-TWSihlesLK472Es6WXcEomZPdr2Qs4MStxOXvJUzB0goJ0LRTXUy4zF-mWX0vb2xndwbatfdwMF13AMxjn-kaUicNelTJD0jRobF638Q4M/s400/iPhone+3+pics+230.JPG" width="400" /></a>The following poem hangs above my desk on the wall as a reminder to me each day of what really matters. A very dear friend of mine gave me this six years ago when our family moved to begin a new chapter in our lives. This move was hard for me because I was leaving all I knew...my comfort zone and my friends. It was hard and for a time, I struggled with this move. Let's be honest, it's never easy to leave what we know and I was no different from anyone else going through something new. I did (and still do once in a while) focus on the negative around me and felt as if life was just so different and I couldn't possibly do what God was asking me to do. However, God always has a way of reminding me that I am not to do anything in my own strength, but rather in His strength. The Bible tells us in <em>I Chronicles 16:11 to "Seek the Lord and his strength, seek his face continually." </em> God knew we would need Him and He tells us to seek Him. If we will seek, He will be found! That is great news!<br />
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Each day I read this poem and some days I follow it more readily than others. I am learning, though, that if I truly count my blessings EACH day, I can be a much happier person no matter what is going on around me. <br />
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All of us will from time to time carry crosses, suffer losses, have woes, endure foes, shed tears, carry fears, have financial losses, and the list could go on; BUT, it is when we FOCUS on the blessings, the gains, the joys, the friends, the smiles, the courage, the kindnesses, and ALL the BLESSING we truly have...well, we find happiness.<br />
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True happiness is found in God. <em>Psalms 146:5 says, "HAPPY is he that hath the God of Jacob for his help, whose hope is in the Lord his God."</em> <br />
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Our hope is in God always regardless of life's circumstances. <u>When we have God as our help, we CAN be happy.</u> This is such a comforting thought to me. There are days that I feel overwhelmed by all that must be done. There are days when I feel very inadequate to do what God is asking me to do. There are days when, frankly, I am weary. However, it is on these days, I remember BLESSINGS...I stop and I think how blessed I really am and I go on.<br />
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So, whatever life brings your way, may I encourage you to stop and remember the blessings God has given you. They are there...I promise, but you have to be looking for them.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-19487492255401658332013-01-22T07:00:00.000-06:002013-01-22T07:00:12.371-06:00Never Let It Grow Old<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhioJqiA3fx5oHRZNw8RhOLdLCY2XXf6NbJROUXMrPlTICPwc2p4mt_GwPUug7Vp144VJxuNsoE9ngd17WY8uoY31M4q4xmHb6bK-umCIwpvZcbDJWg23I8D3PC_vKOS9ZKEI4uPdTjXjQ/s640/blogger-image-2078129429.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhioJqiA3fx5oHRZNw8RhOLdLCY2XXf6NbJROUXMrPlTICPwc2p4mt_GwPUug7Vp144VJxuNsoE9ngd17WY8uoY31M4q4xmHb6bK-umCIwpvZcbDJWg23I8D3PC_vKOS9ZKEI4uPdTjXjQ/s200/blogger-image-2078129429.jpg" width="200" /></a>I love lighthouses! They remind me of my Saviour. He is my Guiding Light. This particular picture is of a setting sun and it serves to remind me that one day the Lord is returning. There is still much to be done for Christ and, most importantly, many souls who still need to reached for Christ. <br />
<u>Ephesians 2:8</u> is a familiar passage to many, but I challenge you to ask yourself, "Has it grown old or do I still marvel at the meaning of this verse?". The verse says, <u>"For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is a gift of God."</u> <br />
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Recently I had the privilege of leading two ladies to the Lord on two separate occasions. I was excited both times...there is just something very sweet about hearing a person ask the Lord to save them. The Bible says there is JOY in Heaven in the presence of the angels when just one sinner repents. (this is found in Luke 15:10)<br />
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The one lady that I talked to was very responsive and very friendly. I got all the way through explaining what one must do in order to be saved and the lady looks at me and proceeds to tell me she has been baptized. I told her that was wonderful, but then I did explain that baptism, although, a good thing is merely a picture and it cannot save anyone. I used an illustration about giving birth to my boys and how they become a part of my family forever. In other words, there is a definite day of birth. However, from time to time, the fellowship may be broken due to things they have done, but no matter what they do, they are ALWAYS part of my family. The same is true of one's salvation...<em><strong>it is a ONE time event where a person puts complete faith and trust in Christ, alone, to save them</strong></em> and then, even though fellowship may be broken from time to time, they are always part of God 's family.<br />
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Salvation was not free because it cost the life of Christ on a cross. A price was paid, but it was paid in order to provide you and I with this wonderful gift...eternal life!<br />
Salvation is not through a denomination, a church, a person, a friend, an event, but rather it is through the grace of God by faith in Christ and Him, alone. <strong><em>Any man, woman or child who places their complete faith in Jesus can and will be saved</em></strong>. What an amazing thought to remember and dwell on...we can be saved forever through faith in Christ.<br />
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Do we still get excited about the day we got saved? Do we still tell others about this wonderful gift of salvation? The other night at church, my pastor husband asked for people to tell when they got saved...I raised my hand and very happily announced, June 4, 1987. I was glad that I was able to say that. I was so thakful to know that I am saved. I trust you are too.<br />
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I pray that you know Christ as your Saviour. I pray that it will never grow old to you...this precious gift of salvation!<br />
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So, this week...I challenge you to go tell somene about Jesus and His wonderful gift of <span style="font-family: inherit;">salvation!</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>From My Heart,</em></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span> <br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-3056683713793926662013-01-18T07:00:00.000-06:002013-01-18T07:00:07.988-06:00The Lord's Still Good...<div align="left" class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Day after day, we walk through life going about our business. We are busy getting life done. We are taking care of our families. We are maintaining our homes. We are fulfilling our work obligations. All the while, we are surrounded by hurting hearts and maybe, just maybe, we are one of those hurting hearts.</div>
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Well, today, I was reading in the <em><u>Psalms</u></em> (as is my habit each day) and I read the familiar passage found in chapter <em><u>34:1 which says: "I will bless the Lord at ALL times: his praise shall continually be in my mouth." vs. 3 - 4 says, "O magnify the Lord with me, and let us EXALT his name together. I SOUGHT the Lord, and he HEARD ME, and DELIVERED me from all my fears."</u></em> Reading a bit further down in<em><u> vs. 8, "O taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him."</u></em> </div>
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I have read these verses (I cannot even count how many times), but today they had a different and more special meaning to me. It was as if God was audibly saying to me "remember, my child, no matter what the burden one carries...I AM still GOOD!" WOW!! I needed this reminder. My heart has been so sad for all of the people that I know who have been hurting and to be honest, I have felt helpless to do anything to ease their burdens. Yet, God reminded me that even in our darkest time of need He is good. <u><strong><em>The very God Who created the universe and all that is within...the LORD, HE IS GOOD.</em></strong></u> </div>
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I stopped and thought about the fact, that, in reality, we are quick to praise Him and brag on Him when everything is going good in our lives. BUT, what about when things are hard? What about when that loved one is dying? What about when we lose that child? (which I have experienced 7 times) What about when our job is gone? What about when we are mistreated? What about when we are facing sickness? What about when our finances are tight? </div>
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What about it, friend? Do we "bless the Lord at ALL times" or do we only do that in times of goodness and prosperity? The Bible is very clear that we are to "bless the Lord at ALL times"...this tells me that means in good or bad. We are to EXALT His name TOGETHER...we need to spend time talking about His goodness and bragging on how good God is to those around us. Our mouths (conversation) should be filled with praise to Him (not just at Thanksgiving). This praise should become a daily habit in our lives. Yes, it's easy to praise Him on the mountaintops of life, but in the valleys, well, that is another story. I have to wonder, though, if we are truly praising Him on a daily basis...then, when those valleys come, it just seems like we would stay faithful with our praise because it has become habit in our lives. </div>
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I remember when I went through losing my sweet babies, it was hard, but God gave grace and somewhere along my journeys of miscarriage I learned to really trust God and believe that all things are for our good. People would ask me if I wondered "why me?" My honest response was "why not me?" That is hard to explain, but I think it came as a result of years of trying to trust and realize the goodness of God. He owed me nothing. Would I have loved more children...YES, but that was not God's plan and at some point, I had to remember to be thankful for the two boys I have here with me rather than spend my days constantly mourning and being discontented because of my losses. You see, ladies, I am not a saint with this attitude...far from it...I just had to choose....TRUST or DOUBT. GOD IS GOOD!! </div>
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The Lord is good whether things go right or things go wrong...He is GOOD!! So, even though I have have carried a hurt and burdened heart for so many people this past couple of weeks, I was reminded, again, of how good God is to each of us. I am thankful that we serve and know a good God. It sure makes facing the heartaches more bearable knowing that we face them with a good God...a God Who wants and knows what is best and delivers us from our fears during these times of trial.</div>
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I don't know what you are facing today, but God does. I don't know how weary you have become, but God does. I don't know how you will get through your heartache, but God does. I don't have these answers, BUT I know the God Who does and I know a God Who is good and so, may I just say to you...hang in there!! May I encourage you today, as God has encouraged me....</div>
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Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-70395047276582760602013-01-15T07:30:00.000-06:002013-01-15T07:30:01.512-06:00A Sweet Smelling Love<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5yj6GudxW9c/UPT0yjjyxOI/AAAAAAAAAZc/qKrT6iEF2nE/s1600/iPhone+3+pics+087.PNG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5yj6GudxW9c/UPT0yjjyxOI/AAAAAAAAAZc/qKrT6iEF2nE/s320/iPhone+3+pics+087.PNG" width="213" /></a>Recently, I read in Ephesians 5:1 and 2: <em>"Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children; And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweetsmelling savour."</em><br />
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The following are just a few random thoughts I had as I read these verses:<br />
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1. <u>We are to follow God.</u><br />
The verse says follow as dear children which makes<br />
me think of a sweet and special relationship. <br />
2. <u>We are to walk in love.</u><br />
The word "walk" is an action. If we are to walk in <br />
love, then we must be doing.<br />
3. <u>Christ loved us by action.</u><br />
His love was unselfish...He did for us by giving <br />
His life.<br />
4. <u>Christ's death was a sacrifice.</u><br />
The very fact that God was willing to give His Son to <br />
die for us...this demonstrates the ultimate sacrifice.<br />
5. <u>The sacrifice was sweet smelling to God.</u><br />
This, to me, says that God was pleased with <br />
the sacrifice...it was sweet smelling to God.<br />
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Now, to take these same thoughts and apply them to my marriage. I thought to myself "does my love stink"? Does the way I show my love to my husband have a sweet smell to God...is God pleased with my love for my husband? Do I have a sacrificial love? All good questions to ask myself.<br />
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I have been married for over twenty years and there are some days I feel like that has been a lifetime and other days, I feel like it has only been a short time. I still have much to learn on my journey through marriage. I love my husband dearly and I am truly thankful for him, but if I am honest with myself, I would have to say that sometimes my love does stink. There are days when I am not very loving because I am selfish in my love toward him. There are days when I am so busy, that I neglect to put my love into action the way I should. These two small verses were simple reminders for me that I must constantly be thinking about my love for my husband and I must be consistently working to apply that love for him.<br />
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I read a really good statement by Andrew Murray in the book, "Teach Me to Pray" and the statement said, <em><u>"Eventually you realize what this life of love is: to live wholly for the welfare and happiness of others."</u></em> Wow! Such a great truth!<br />
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Between the couple of verses showing the ultimate sacrifice of love through the death of Christ and reading this simple reminder statement, I am more committed to WORKING daily to SHOW my love for my husband. I want my love for my husband to be sacrificial and I want it to be sweet smelling.<br />
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I also have been reminded to work on this in other relationships. I have much growing to do, but I am thankful for the Word of God and the simple lessons we can learn if we just open our eyes and hearts to the truths He wants to teach us. <br />
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So, ask yourself "does your love stink?" If so, it is not too late to work on putting that love into action and to daily strive to be a sweet smelling savour in your love for your husband.<br />
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Have a great week ladies!<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>From my Heart,</em></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-87801664144628755052013-01-11T07:30:00.000-06:002013-01-11T07:30:00.298-06:00Passing Down a Goodly HeritageRecently during my Bible reading, I read the following verse: <em><strong>Psalms 16:11 "The lines have fallen unto me in pleasant places; yea, I have a goodly heritage."</strong></em><br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNbhN_ZwQEzifWSNeQrIBTotALxRvBQFzAlhwlSG-8f8rV20RQLABHzg37w4i5eWUrFg16LJw6pnSrKgg_dkrodnCr2S4gHaSBRsxBWBsw4nAespXELo83RF96gZnLnHBxmxr2fW96z-Y/s1600/IMG_2650_0014_014.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="133" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNbhN_ZwQEzifWSNeQrIBTotALxRvBQFzAlhwlSG-8f8rV20RQLABHzg37w4i5eWUrFg16LJw6pnSrKgg_dkrodnCr2S4gHaSBRsxBWBsw4nAespXELo83RF96gZnLnHBxmxr2fW96z-Y/s200/IMG_2650_0014_014.jpg" width="200" /></a>These verses are a reminder to me, personally, that I HAVE been given a goodly heritage. My parents were not raised in Christian homes, but they were both saved and when they had kids they made a choice to raise us in a Christian home and to raise us, not for themselves, but for the Lord. I am so very grateful for this heritage that I have been given. Respectively, my husband was also raised in a Christian home; in fact, his father pastored for over 30 years. My husband, Jack, was also afforded a goodly heritage. <br />
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Yesterday, I said goodbye to my oldest, Ryan, as I left him at college to begin his second semester of his freshman year. It was a bittersweet moment...the kind of moment where you want to cry and yet, you stand there realizing the kind of young man your son is becoming and how exciting his future is...well, honestly, it was difficult to cry because I felt proud of him.<br />
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How can I be sad when I see my son becoming what his father and I have prayed for so many years? It is not due to us, but rather to a God Who has seen fit to bless our children and I, believe, God has blessed our efforts as parents to provide a goodly heritage. I am not naive to think that there are guarantees when it comes to raising our children, but I do think that if our focus is on Christ and doing our child rearing the way He desires, that there is a much better opportunity for our children to walk in this goodly heritage and in time, pass it on to their children.<br />
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I am going to share a few things that my parents did that can be a help to each of us when it comes to passing on a goodly heritage. I am sure there are many things that can be added to this list, but I am simply sharing my own experiences and how my parents helped me. <br />
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<u>1. MY PARENTS WERE THE PARENTS</u><br />
Now, this may sound simple and well, almost ridiculous to even say, BUT it is becoming increasing unpopular in today's society to parent because we would rather be their friend and just allow them to do their own thing as children. I mean, after all, we have to allow them to find themselves and develop their personality. <br />
At the age of 43, I have a very close friendship with my parents. I believe with all my heart is it because they decided years ago to parent me while I was young, knowing they would reap the benefits of my friendship when I became an adult. Now, don't misunderstand me, I did consider my parents my friends, but their was and always has been a profound respect of my parents on my part. When it came to making tough choices, my parents gave me boundaries, discipline and rules to live by. They always believed the outcome was worth the effort of parenting. I am extremely grateful for this in my parents. <em>Ephesians 6:4 "And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord."</em> My parents taught and did their best to bring me up in a way which pleased the Lord.<br />
God is no different...He is our parent, our Heavenly Father. His Word is FULL of teaching and instruction. He longs to be our friend, but He also longs to teach us and instruct us in the ways which we should go. A parent will seek what is best for us even when it is not popular...they will choose to BE the PARENT. <br />
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<u>2. MY PARENTS WERE ON THE SAME PAGE</u><br />
Now, this in my mind is huge. My parents did not always agree on everything, BUT they were always on the same page when it came to us kids and our family. I always knew that they were a united front...I didn't even try to pit parent against parent...would have been useless effort on my part. We knew that decisions were made as a team and with the best interest of our entire family in mind. I knew that my parents weren't perfect and that they didn't always see eye to eye, BUT I always knew they were a TEAM and that was that. I am so thankful that my parents were united. It taught me to hang tough through everything no matter how tough things might get. It taught me about being real. It taught me you can have differences. It taught me to learn to deal with those differences. <u><strong>Being on the same page and being united makes all the difference in the world in the life of one's children.</strong></u> I think of the story in Genesis 27 about Issac and Rebekah how Rebekah helped her son to deceive his father...this is very sad to me. Just think if the parents had been always on the same page, this might not have been the case. Moms, it is especially important for us to support our children's fathers and for us to be the ones to show the children a united front. It WILL make a difference. <br />
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<u>3. MY PARENTS LOVED (and still do) UNCONDITIONALLY</u><br />
<em>John 15:9 comes to mind, "As the Father hath loved me, so have I loved you: continue ye in my love."</em> My parents loved us and taught us how to love others. They followed their words with actions. I can't tell you how many people we kept in our home for periods of time because they were in need. I remember so many people my parents helped with bills, helped to feed, or just whatever they needed. My parents loved by example! I always knew they loved me even when I was undeserving of that love...there were NEVER strings attached. To this day, my parents love me. They respect decisions I make as an adult and they do not withhold their love if they may disagree. Their love is, was and always will be unconditional. That is what God teaches us...unconditional love. What a great example! <em>John 15:10 states, "If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love: even as I have kept my Father's commandments, and abide in his love." </em> What a great place to abide...in the love of God. I am thankful that my parents taught me through their love of one another, their love of us kids, and their love of God how to love unconditionally. <br />
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These are just a few things I learned while growing up in the home of Frank and Margaret Moran that I believe have contributed to my goodly heritage. I could list many more points but these are some that I feel are so very important to passing on a goodly heritage. My desire for my children is that I have and will continue to transfer this goodly heritage and that when I am much older observing my children raising their children, that I will see these same qualities being passed on.<br />
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<strong><u>Being the parent, having unity as parents, and unconditionally loving as parents are three top essentials that will allow a "goodly heritage" to pass from one generation to the next.</u></strong> These are three of my goals...what are some of yours when it comes to parenting and passing on a goodly heritage? I would love to hear them!<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-90866311309746727572013-01-08T08:30:00.000-06:002013-01-10T23:34:04.110-06:00Organization in Progress...Meal Planning made Simple<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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#3 - Pages to list websites and blogs frequented (password and username info can be recorded as well) I like this because I am forever forgetting my passwords.</div>
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#4 - Clear ziploc pocket that can be used for receipts or whatever you choose</div>
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<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jL-Nyh-CE0Q/UOUpkok8WsI/AAAAAAAAAU8/y4Qu6hRARsY/s1600/4.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-jL-Nyh-CE0Q/UOUpkok8WsI/AAAAAAAAAU8/y4Qu6hRARsY/s1600/4.jpg" /></a> The smaller of the two organizer is strictly for recording website and blog information for sites frequented. I pay all my bills online and thus, have passwords and usernames that I use each month...again, I tend to have a hard time remembering them all so, this will prove useful for me. As far as websites and blogs, well, my list continues to grow and this will save me time as well. I have one place for hotel info, grocery store info, shopping info, etc. This will be wonderful!<br />
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I started on Thursday filling out my organizers and I am very excited about being able to feel more organized in my planning of meals and shopping. Plus, I know the extra perk will be money saved...I am good about only buying what is listed. So, that will mean savings for our pocket book. :) I especially like this benefit!<br />
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I plan to add in some other categories such as medical info, birthday and anniversary lists, important dates to remember, and a calendar so the large organizer can become my "brain" so to speak. I have a smart phone and use it for alot of things, but I have to be honest...I love lists and writing them out and seeing them actually accomplished. Don't get me wrong, I am not giving up my smart phone because, well, because...I just can't do that...lol. However, the combination of smart phone and list making will bring peace to my world and that is something I can live with for sure. <br />
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So, if you will excuse me, I need to go work on my grocery list for the week. Have a great day and until next time, "PLAN YOUR WORK AND WORK YOUR PLAN". (This phrase was taught to me in college by Dr. Wendall Evans...truly wise advice)<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-66808759215721164142013-01-05T07:00:00.000-06:002013-01-05T07:00:08.489-06:00"Reflections.." Purpose RevealedSo, I thought it would be good to reveal a few ideas I am working on for this blog. Mind you, these are goals that I have and I am guessing as I go along, my ideas will change from time to time. Be patient with me as I try to develop my thought processes. Thank you, in advance. <br />
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I am desiring to have three specific areas of focus about which I will write. These <strong>three areas will be as follows:</strong><br />
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<em><strong>Marriage & Motherhood</strong></em>: Things others have taught that I have found to be beneficial; ideas gleaned through reading outside resources; as well, as everyday life in my own home...I want to be "real" with you. <em>Let's face it, ladies, we aren't alone and when we "THINK" we are the only ones going through something...truth is, we aren't</em>. <br />
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<strong><em>Practical Tips & Ideas: </em></strong>The purpose of this will be to share recipes, cleaning and organizational ideas, practical helps for personal growth, etc. I love swapping ideas with other ladies and I look forward to learning from you. This will be lighthearted, yet helpful. <em> Who among us doesn't need more brainstorming ideas...let's enjoy making life work for us.</em><br />
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<strong><em>Friendship & Ministry</em></strong>: I desire here to work on building better relationships with people and to, also, include ideas that will help ladies who are involved in ministering in a church capacity. Again, <em>we, as sisters in Christ, have much we can glean from one another.</em> I think <em>we feel isolated sometimes in our areas of ministry, often forgetting that there is an army of ladies out there serving and ministering to others longing to have a comradery of support</em>. I hope to be part of that support and to gain knowledge from you as well. These ideas may include scheduling, planning showers for others, Sunday School ideas and lessons thoughts, activities for ladies ministry, etc...there is a wealth of ideas from which we all can glean. <em> I don't know about you, but I am a sponge and I love soaking up ideas that help me to improve my service for the Lord</em>. <br />
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Again, my desire is to be real...to just be myself. So, if you are looking for perfection, well, you have come to the wrong place. However, if you are looking for somewhere to share ideas, to rejoice with one another, to learn from other ladies well, then, you have come to the right place. I hope that through this blog, I will gain new friends and the Lord will allow our lives to be enriched by the life lessons we share. I pray that as God teaches me, you may be helped as well. One would think that in my 40's, I would have "it all together", but <strong><em>truth be told I am realizing more and more each day how much I have yet to learn.</em></strong><br />
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I want to do more for God this year; I want to see more souls saved; I want to be a better wife; I want to be a better mom; I want to be a better friend; I want to be a better daughter; I want to be a better sister; I want to be a better pastor's wife; I want to be a better teacher, but <em><u>none of this will happen if I am not focused on being who God made me to be...Robyn.</u></em> So, as I share the reflections God shows me as I look in the mirror of His Word, may you, as I, be reminded that He loves each of us. He longs for us to fully comprehend the depth of His love for us and even though that seems so unfathomable to our minds...He truly does love us! <br />
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<u>Ephesians 3:17 - 19 says, "That Christ may dwell in your hearts by faith; that ye, being rooted and grounded in love, May be able to comprehend with all saints what is the breadth, and length, and depth, and height; And to KNOW the LOVE OF CHRIST, which passeth knowledge, that ye might be filled with ALL the fullness of God."</u><br />
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This about sums up my heart...to know His love for me and to be filled with Him. Is that your desire? How wonderful to comprehend fully His love...you know it is not too late. <strong>Join me this year is knowing Him more</strong>. I welcome your feedback and your insights as I make this journey. <br />
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<em>I<strong> look forward to the "Reflections from the Robyn's Nest" in 2013...and I trust that these "reflections" will be a blessing to you as I know God intends them to be for me. Thank for visiting my nest! </strong></em><strong> </strong><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;">Robyn</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-50786943272556554392013-01-02T07:00:00.000-06:002013-01-02T07:00:11.173-06:00Happy Birthday to MY Dad!<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Today, I want to celebrate my dad...he turns 69 years old today and I am grateful that he is celebrating another birthday. <em><strong> My dad has overcome much in his life and yet, he has remained faithful to the Lord and has maintained <u>his attitude of "the joy of the Lord".</u> </strong></em> I am grateful that he is my dad and I am thankful for the wonderful example he has been for me through the years.</div>
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My dad grew up in poor circumstances, but he never complained to us or made us think he had a bad life. I remember a trip once that my husband and I took with my parents to Baltimore (where dad grew up) and we saw many places from my dad's childhood. I am so glad that I had the opportunity to see where dad grew up and learn more about his childhood. I have only been to Baltimore about 5 times in my life. We did not go there often when I was a child and I really never had the opportunity to know my dad's family very well. He came from a very large family. I wish I would have known all of them better, but due to a myriad of circumstances, this was not the case.</div>
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Dad joined the Air Force and served our country for 20 years. I am proud to be the daughter of a veteran. My dad served with honor and integrity. He was stationed in Vietnam for a time. It was in Vietnam that my dad came to accept the Lord as his personal Saviour. He had a bunkmate who was a Christian and would witness to dad often. After many times of witnessing and living an example of Christ, dad came to a knowledge of Christ and trusted Him, alone, as his way to Heaven. I am so thankful for this man who witnessed to my dad...his name is Weldon and I am forever grateful to him for showing my dad the way of salvation.</div>
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While serving in Vietnam, a lady, named Margaret, began writing to this GI, Howard. They wrote for a while and then, when dad came back stateside they met in person. Their relationship continued and in January of 1969, they were married...now well over 40 years they are still married. I am thankful that they resolved no matter what may happen to stay together and make a marriage that would please God.</div>
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Dad grew slowly, but steadily in the Lord for a period of years while I was a young girl. I remember going to church faithfully. I remember praying at night with dad. I remember learning to trust God to supply our needs. I remember serving in the church with my family. I remember living in a home where God mattered and was important. I am thankful for a dad who did what he knew to do to ensure that I would live for God and seek Him with my whole heart.</div>
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I remember my dad being diagnosed with congestive heart failure in his fourties. The doctors have been amazed that he is still living. I know why though...God had more for dad to do in his life. Dad has given his life for others. He has helped people financially. He has allowed people to live in our home when they had no where else to go. He has helped young people through hard times. He has been an encourager to those who are discouraged.<em> <u>He has been a "rock" for our family</u></em>. He has been faithful to my mom. He has stayed faithful to his Saviour.</div>
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Two years ago this month, dad had surgery to remove cancer from his body. I remember thinking "what would I do without dad?" He has always been here for me. I call him and he is there. He is there when I need encouragement. He is there when I need chewed out (which is often). I am not sure why I call at times like this, but I think it is because my dad has always been a "voice of reason" and a voice that I trust. I have had to make some hard decisions in my lifetime and dad has always had wisdom to help me with these decisions. <u> </u><em><u>I have learned that by honoring my dad, God has been pleased.</u> </em> I am so thankful that God has seen fit to give my dad more time with our family!</div>
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I could go on and on, but I won't....I just desired to share with you a little bit about my dad and why I am so very thankful for him. <u>We named our oldest son in honor of my dad, Ryan Jeffrey-Franklin and our youngest son, Jordan, well, he is JUST like my dad</u>. <strong><em>I am thankful that long after dad is rejoicing in Heaven one day, I will still have my boys as reminders of this great man that I have been privileged to call DAD all my life. God sure has been good to me!!</em></strong></div>
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Dad, I love you more than words could ever express and I am so humbled to be your daughter! I trust your birthday will be extra special and you will know how very much you are loved. </div>
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Your daughter,</div>
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(okay, that is a story for another day, but dad knows what this means)</div>
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Dear Friend,<br />
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Well, about four months ago, I took a WEEK off to take our oldest son back to college. I have to say that was the LONGEST week of my life. Lol<br />
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Seriously, though, I had every intention of picking back up with my blog when I returned home, but somehow life happened and I had alot of "reflecting" to do about the purpose for which this blog had been created. I am glad to say that the Lord has been working in my heart and I am excited about this new year. The Lord has placed several things on my heart for this coming year that He would like for me to accomplish. One of those things is this blog. <br />
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I have renamed my blog and I am refocused on it's purpose. In the past months, God has really been reminding me of <em>HIS LOVE for ME, Robyn Bachman.</em> He is reminding me constantly that I do not have to be like so and so...He simply wants me to be who He created me to be. I fall, too often, into the trap of comparison and it has been here that I have struggled for some time. However, this is one of my goals for the new year <em><strong>to realize who I am in Christ and what I am capable of doing for Him and through Him.</strong></em><br />
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Each year I host a Christmas fellowship for the ladies of my church and at this fellowship I share a verse or more that God gives me to focus on in the upcoming year. This year my verses were found in <strong><u>Psalms 91:1 - 2, "He that dwelleth in the secret place of the most High shall abide under the shadow of the Almighty. I will say of the Lord, He is my refuge and my fortress: my God; in him will I trust." </u></strong> It is from these verses that I have gained new perspective on many things in my life. It is from these verses that I have come to change the name of my blog and move in a different direction, to some degree.<br />
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<em><strong>The word "reflection" means: an act of reflecting or being reflected; an image; representation; counterpart; a fixing of the thoughts on something; careful consideration; a thought occuring in consideration or meditation.</strong></em><br />
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<em><strong>The word "nest" means: a snug retreat or refuge; a resting place; home.</strong></em><br />
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These writings will be reflections of the lessons I am learning while sheltered under the wings of my Saviour. It is here with my Saviour that I can grow, learn and find shelter from the storms of life. It is only in Him where I can find true refuge. I desire this year, more than ever, to dwell with Him in that secret place. I long to trust Him completely with all that life brings. It is my deepest desire to rest in Him.<br />
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Thank you for your patience and for your friendship to me. I am thankful that I am able to share these lessons with you because in doing so I become accountable to staying focused on these goals. I plan to also share recipes, tips and ideas for the home as well. It is amazing how much we can learn from one another. <br />
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I am truly excited about 2013 for I believe it holds many new things for me, my family and my church family. I look forward to seeing what the year will bring and I am even more excited to know that I am face the year sheltered "under His wings". <br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><strong><em>From My Heart,</em></strong></span><br />
<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: large;"><strong><em>Robyn</em></strong></span><br />
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<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-67301622223263938162012-08-28T07:00:00.000-05:002012-08-28T07:00:09.206-05:00Off for a WeekFriends, Just wanted to let you know I will be taking a week off to spend time with my family. If you don't mind, pray for us as we leave our oldest at college. This is a new phase in our lives. We are excited for Ryan and look forward to what God has in store for his future. However, that doesn't change the fact that our home will be a little quieter and our hearts will be a little lonelier with him gone. Pray for our Jordan as he adjusts to life as an "only child" so to speak. Change is not always easy, but it is essential for our growth and a natural part of life. <br />
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I will resume blogging after Labor Day. I trust you all have a great holiday! <br />
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Until next time...RobynAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-77896344751848591582012-08-23T07:00:00.000-05:002012-08-23T07:00:03.126-05:00Words with FriendsRecently I mentioned how I enjoy the game "Words with Friends" and how it has gotten me to thinking about my words with my friends. There is not a day goes by that we do not talk or speak to others for some reason whether it be our husband, children, families, friends, coworkers or acquaintances. Our words are so important and the affect they have on others can be positive or negative; therefore, it is important that we choose our words wisely. <br />
I have definitely not mastered this subject, but as I am growing older I must admit that I am becoming more aware of the things I say and the affect on others. I am working on being more conscious of my word choices. As we all know, once we say it there is no taking it back. That phrase "I didn't mean to say that" somehow never seems to fully make a situation better. Let's be honest, once the words are out...they are out!<br />
So, I began to do a little study on what type of words I should be using. I am going to share a few things that I have been reminded of in my own study time. <br />
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<u><strong>1.<em> Soft</em> Proverbs 15:1 "A soft answer turneth away wrath; but grievous words stir up anger."</strong></u><br />
We have a better opportunity to bring a matter to a peaceful resolution when we choose to speak softly or kindly rather than words of anger toward another person. When faced with a difficult situation, choose to speak words of kindness. This is not a typical reaction, but when chosen will have much better results. Again, I am reminded of the phrase, "you catch more bees with honey" and this is a very simple, but practical truth. <u>Speak softly</u>.<br />
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<strong><u>2. <em>Sweet </em> Proverbs 16:21 "The wise in heart shall be called prudent: and the sweetness of the lips increaseth learning."</u></strong> This makes me think about the fact that when I am trying to make a point in conversation or get my point of view across, it is more likely to happen when I speak with words that are sweet. A person who is beligerant with their words or bossy does not tend to convince others of any point of view. Choose your words carefully. <u>Speak sweetly</u>.<br />
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<strong><u>3. <em>Suitable</em> Proverbs 16:24 "Pleasant words are as an honeycomb, sweet to the soul, and health to the bones."</u></strong> Our words can heal or hurt the spirit and health of another person, including our own. When we use harsh, ugly words this has a negative affect; just as pleasant, specifically chosen (suitable) words can and do have a positive affect on others. Think before you speak and be appropriate in different situations. If you aren't sure what to say, then don't say anything. <u>Speak suitably</u>.<br />
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<strong><u>4. <em>Scant</em> Proverbs 10:19 "In the multitude of words there wanteth not sin: but he that refraineth his lips is wise."</u></strong> In general, the more we say, the more we can find ourselves saying things we ought not to say. There is wisdom to be found in a man (or woman) of few words. You know the old phrase, "I put my foot in my mouth" which refers to someone saying something they didn't mean to say or should not have said. This can be avoided by simply speaking less and being much more thoughtful before we speak. <u>Speak scantly</u>.<br />
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<strong><u>5. <em>Slow</em> James 1:19 "Wherefore, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath:"</u></strong> I have heard said before that God gave us two ears and one mouth for a reason and this verse seems to give a little light to that saying. It is important that we learn to speak after we listen and after we think through what ought to be said. I am learning as the years go by that opinions do not need to be shared...they can be thoughts kept to ourselves. We are not obligated to say everything that is on our mind. <u>Speak slowly</u>.<br />
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These are just a few thoughts; nothing fancy, but rather simple practical helps that would benefit each of us. What kind of "words with friends" do you and I have on a daily basis? Do our words please our Saviour? Are our words fit for the hearer? <strong><em>Proverbs 25:11 says, "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in pictures of silver." </em></strong>Our words can be beautiful, but we have to put forth a conscious daily effort to speak in a way that pleases God. <br />
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So, enjoy the app on your phone and continue to play the game "Words with Friends" and as you do, ask yourself are you daily applying the right principles to your own WORDS WITH YOUR FRIENDS? If honest, I am sure, we could all work on this area and find ways to improve.<br />
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Well, I have a game to finish...looking for a good word to play my "Z" tile and get a lot of points. Until next time....<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">From my Heart,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Robyn</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-70337966825500576492012-08-16T07:00:00.000-05:002012-08-16T07:00:11.895-05:00Busy Wives; Busy LivesOkay ladies, if I had to guess, many of you like me feel overwhelmed from time to time by the long list of "to dos" that you have waiting for you each and every day. As wives and moms, we have many things pulling at our time. Whether you work outside your home; you work inside your home; or both, your life is busy. <br />
I am getting ready to go back to work teaching in our Christian school which means less time at home to do the things that need to be done. I have been thinking that I need to come up with a game plan now rather than waiting and feeling like I can't keep up with everything. So, for today's post I am simply going to share a few practical ideas that I plan to use more often in my own life and home.<br />
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<u>1. Have a plan (schedule your time)</u><br />
<em>Proverbs 14:1 says, "A wise woman buildeth her house; but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands."</em> Before any person begins to build, they lay out a plan. The same is true for wives and moms, it is important to plan (schedule) our time. Buy an inexpensive calendar or use your smart phone to plan out your time. Write down appointments, things to do or projects to work on and let that be a guide for you. A few moments every day spent in planning can save many wasted minutes and even, hours, throughout the week. <br />
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<u>2. Be prepared (take mental note of the future and things that will be happening)</u><br />
<em>Proverbs 31:27 says, "She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness."</em> This entire chapter speaks of many things the wise woman will do as it pertains to her family. This verse in particular speaks to preparation and hard work. A woman who is "looking" is preparing for what is to come. Life can take unexpected turns from time to time and the more prepared we are, the less opportunity to be caught not ready for something. For example, lay out school clothes the night before; plan a week of meals; and schedule your cleaning time...just to name a few practical ideas. Preparation does help to ease the stresses in life, but don't get so rigid that you lack flexibility. Balance is the key. <br />
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<u>3. Enjoy your family and home (spend time together and create memories)</u><br />
<em>Colossians 3:23 says, "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men."</em><br />
Now, this may seem like an odd verse for this point, but what I am trying to convey is that your relationship with those in your home should be given your best. Create memories by creating your own family traditions. Sometimes, the house may not be "spotless" because your schedule has been full, but when your focus is on your loved ones, they will remember that. They won't remember a dusty shelf (unless it has been months and you can write your name in it...lol), but they will remember that you spent time with them. I am not advocating that we don't clean our homes...I am just saying, spend time with your husband and kids too. Don't neglect one for the other. Balance is the key.<br />
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These three things are all very basic and honestly, are not new thoughts. May I also say, do not compare your home to that of other people. We as woman can drive ourselves crazy when we start the comparison game...thinking we have to be like everybody else. Many women "burn out" trying to "keep up with the Joneses". It isn't worth the price you will pay. <strong> <u><em>Make your home what God wants your home to be and love your family the way God has created you to love them.</em></u> </strong> Noone can take your place!<br />
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The last thing we want is to not give our families our best; however, when we are tired or frazzled that can easily happen. If we plan ahead, then we are more likely to keep everything running smoothly and to keep our families cared for and happy. You know that old saying, "if momma ain't happy, ain't nobody happy"...well, our goal is for our family, including ourself, to be and stay happy.<br />
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So, to you busy wifes and moms, may you find strength today to do what needs to be done and grace to let go of those things that can wait until tomorrow. <br />
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<span style="font-size: x-large;">From My Heart,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">Robyn</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-55487143861858912912012-08-13T07:00:00.000-05:002012-08-13T07:00:03.749-05:00Don't Forget the Clean Slate<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA6pehFFIRee7uUf4zaWYyhg0ENuYc4HLU1hoja1PbY8JB8TuQ71NvpJYMvLb6VUmqN1PL9bT8pkhRMDV7l-DLDbLGrVOh-qCzIAHosVVm0BXHO-YXBsn7LhZPGDIcmH5_-JStNPd1gxY/s1600/Class.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA6pehFFIRee7uUf4zaWYyhg0ENuYc4HLU1hoja1PbY8JB8TuQ71NvpJYMvLb6VUmqN1PL9bT8pkhRMDV7l-DLDbLGrVOh-qCzIAHosVVm0BXHO-YXBsn7LhZPGDIcmH5_-JStNPd1gxY/s1600/Class.jpg" /></a>Well, it is that time of year and I am getting ready to head back into the classroom. This week I will be busy readying desks, doing lesson plans, updating files, and decorating classroom walls. There is alot of preparation that goes into getting ready to start a school year. This will be my thirteenth year teaching in a classroom and each year is a "clean slate" in my book. I want my students to come in knowing that it is a brand new year....what happened last year (good or bad) is well, last year. This is a new year and we each are starting the year with a CLEAN SLATE. Each individual will decide what they write on their own personal slate for the school year 2012-2013. <br />
This concept made me think about family relationships. Families can become so familiar with one another that it is often each other that they hurt. Why is it that we tend to be kinder to strangers than to those in our own family? Wives, why do we become cross with our husband, but not our bosses? Why are our children nicer to their friends than they are to their siblings? Kind of strange, huh? <br />
It just seems like the opposite should be true...our families should get the best of us especially in how we treat them. <strong><u>The clean slate concept should be used daily in our homes.</u> </strong> We need to realize every day is a new day and we should start clean with one another.<br />
Lamentations 3:22 - 23 says, "It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed, because his compassions fail not. <strong><em><u>They are new every morning</u></em></strong>: great is thy faithfulness."<br />
I sure am glad that my Heavenly Father gives me a clean slate each day. I know I disappoint Him and I do not always please Him as I should, but He loves me and each day He shows compassion and mercy to me. His example should be one that we all follow in our homes with our loved ones. It just seems the least we could do after what He does for us.<br />
This wasn't a long post today, but rather a random thought I had the other day as I thought about my upcoming school year. So, <em><strong>as I walk into my classroom and I give my students "clean slates" it will be done after waking up that morning and doing the same for my husband and boys.</strong></em> <br />
Here's to a great school year...clean slates and all!<br />
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<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSWq7YZIkTSauk79x3M6WKrm7IlFdIZKv7QENwTfJ_3RIPSTCZ9J9l9xyVmZ2y7UUHLmFkMGS2bLXqZKfKGKk5uVESpdXXFR8nhWFcp3sjuhFxm2Guj_2vSxWpW0nZz6icPDw2HMnAvW4/s1600/Family+Oct.+2010.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjSWq7YZIkTSauk79x3M6WKrm7IlFdIZKv7QENwTfJ_3RIPSTCZ9J9l9xyVmZ2y7UUHLmFkMGS2bLXqZKfKGKk5uVESpdXXFR8nhWFcp3sjuhFxm2Guj_2vSxWpW0nZz6icPDw2HMnAvW4/s1600/Family+Oct.+2010.jpg" /></a><span style="font-size: x-large;">From my Heart, </span><br />
<span style="font-size: x-large;">Robyn</span><br />
Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-1955903065590102502012-08-07T07:00:00.000-05:002012-08-07T19:50:38.670-05:00A Lesson of Helps from My HusbandNormally I try to post on Mondays and Thursdays...that is the goal, but this week it didn't quite happen. Last week was well, a week, if I do say so myself. It was a rougher than normal week because I was physically quite sick and it was a rougher than normal week on my emotions due to circumstances beyond my control. I venture to say that we all have weeks like this from time to time. The important thing is what we do and how we handle these particular times in our lives. Our response to hard times is important because it affects us and it affects all those around us. I purposely postponed writing a new post because, well, honestly, I needed some time to pray, think, and process some things in life. <br />
I hate to admit it, but sometimes in life things happen that cause us to just wonder or cause us to be in absolute dismay. Last week that happened in my life. I kept thinking "how?" and "why?" and frankly, no answers came. I believe I felt every emotion imaginable. I was hurt. I was sad. I was angry. I was dismayed. I was numb. I was....you name it...I felt it. My emotions were all over the charts. During this difficult time, my husband was such a help. He continued as he does daily, to point me to the One Who is always constant and never changes. My husband reminded me that though we were angered, disappointed, hurt and saddened by something that had occured, we must always remember that the Lord we serve NEVER disappoints, He NEVER brings us grief and He will NEVER let us down....ever. I knew this, but I definitely needed the reminder from my sweet husband. <br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD_SH_TVHhAu9QjrUER3JwCFVru0SkJyVBHQN1dqwBSv5eCTtA3z_SlXaJ4gOgmv9E5uvCNLVTyvDVgdOArhj4DakI5B78rzmJ1ZezjQfcZKuThXAKSSNGqq0AIzWf3yy4mOcg6r2IG74/s1600/990201638_278.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" height="130" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhD_SH_TVHhAu9QjrUER3JwCFVru0SkJyVBHQN1dqwBSv5eCTtA3z_SlXaJ4gOgmv9E5uvCNLVTyvDVgdOArhj4DakI5B78rzmJ1ZezjQfcZKuThXAKSSNGqq0AIzWf3yy4mOcg6r2IG74/s200/990201638_278.jpg" width="200" /></a>My husband is my pastor and for today's blog, I want to share some thoughts that he shared with our church people. He was extremely helpful to our people and shared some things that can help us when we are disappointed or hurt by the fall of another Christian. Maybe you have never experienced hurt, you will. Maybe you don't know what it is like to be let down by another human, you will. May these few points help you the way they helped me. <br />
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<strong>1. <u>Increase your trust in the Lord</u>.</strong><br />
<strong>Ps. 118:8 "It is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man."</strong><br />
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We, as humans, can be tempted to put man on a pedastal...we must be careful. Our confidence and foundation must be built upon God, not man. It is good to learn from and follow those that are walking closely with the Lord. However, it is not wise for us to worship a man. We must remember that man is man...flesh and therefore, is capable of failing. <em>God is God and He NEVER fails</em>!!<br />
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<strong>2. <u>Increase your hatred of sin</u>.</strong><br />
<strong>Ps. 97:10 "Ye that love the Lord, hate evil: he preserveth the souls of his saints; he delivereth them out of the hand of the wicked."</strong><br />
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Sin is a terrible thing and when we become complacent to it, it is then that we become more susceptible to falling. Hate sin, but not the sinner. This is by no means an excuse, either, to justify sin. Sin must be hated and sin must be properly dealt with or it will enslave. No man is above sin and no man can think himself untouchable. Unfortunately, it is this lacksadaisical attitude that often leads to one's downfall. <em>Hate sin....run as far from it as you can</em>!<br />
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<strong>3. <u>Increase your wariness of the devil</u>. </strong><br />
<strong>I Peter 5:8 "Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour."</strong><br />
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I find this verse interesting because it compares the devil to a roaring lion. He is not quiet. Yet, so many Christians fall prey to him. We must daily be watching for the devil. We must walk cirumspectly with wisdom and prudence and not give the devil a foothold. It saddens me to see the devil destroy lives. <em>We must all become more aware of this enemy and we must realize that his goal is to destroy us. </em><br />
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<strong>4. <u>Increase your love for those who are hurt</u>.</strong><br />
<strong>2 Sam. 1:10 "So, I stood upon him, and slew him, because I was sure that he could not live after that he was fallen..."</strong><br />
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"I was sure he could not live after that he was fallen.." What an interesting thought here. Saul was not dead yet. He was wounded and by all counts it seemed as though he would not live. The Amalekite came upon him and Saul tells him, in essence, to finish him off. This Amalekite is relaying this story to David and the events of what took place. To me it is interesting the choice of words he used because it would seem that we, too, feel this way when someone falls. We assume because a Christian sins that they are never able to be used again. Now, again, I am not saying do not deal with a person's sin. Sin MUST be dealt with properly and properly punished. We must, however, continue to love the sinner while hating the sin. We must also reach out to those who were hurt by the wrongdoing. We must remember those who have suffered due to the wrong done. We must love people. We must love the hurting. I have often wondered why it is that Christians tend to "kick each other when they are down"...just seems like a strange concept. <em>True love will seek to help the wounded and seek to repair the broken. </em><br />
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<strong>5. <u>Increase your determination to march on for Christ</u>.</strong><br />
<strong>Phil. 3:13 - 14 "Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus."</strong><br />
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As a Christian, you must realize that flesh is flesh and unfortunately, flesh will fail us. We must press on for Christ regardless of what has taken place. We must continue to serve the Lord and realize it is the Lord Whom we serve, not a man. If our eyes are on a man, then we will stop when they fall. If our eyes are fixed on Jesus, then, when man falls we are able to keep pressing on for Christ. What are our motives for serving Christ? Are we serving for recognition and a place of status with other Christians or are we serving in order to please our Saviour? <em>Our motivation for service should be Jesus and Him alone. Press on!</em><br />
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I hope these simple thoughts will be a blessing to someone else as they were to me. Remember that we serve a God Who sees, Who knows and Who cares about us. We must live each day remembering that it is God alone Whom we serve.<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">From My Heart,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Robyn</span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-73894799697538247322012-08-02T07:00:00.000-05:002012-08-02T07:00:03.415-05:00God's Embroidering<strong><em>Psalms 18:30..."As for God, his way is perfect: the word of the Lord is tried; he is a buckler to all those that trust in Him."</em></strong><br />
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1. God's ways, not man's are PERFECT<br />
2. God's Word has been tried and proven time and time again<br />
3. God will and does shield, support and defend those who trust Him<br />
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Bro. Hyles wrote a poem many, many years ago and this poem has been on my mind much these past few days. I look at my own life through the past 43 years and I realize there are so many things I have not understood. There were times when I was tempted to question what God allowed in my life. However, the reality is that in all of our lives, GOD ALWAYS KNOWS BEST even when we don't understand.<br />
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So, today, I simply want to share this poem that is such an encouragement to me and trust that you, too, will be reminded and encouraged that God's plan is always right. <br />
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<em>"Twas just a little wooden hoop</em><br />
<em>Her caring hands would clasp.</em><br />
<em>Some cloth, some thread, a needle's point,</em><br />
<em>As treasures she would grasp.</em><br />
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<em>"What are you doing, Mother dear?"</em><br />
<em>My straying voice would cry.</em><br />
<em>"Embroidering," she answered clear,</em><br />
<em>With mothering reply.</em><br />
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<em>"I must confess, 'tis quite a mess,</em><br />
<em>Oh, erring mother mine.</em><br />
<em>Why waste your day to idly play</em><br />
<em>With balls of tangled twine?</em><br />
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<em>"Why, Mother, are the darkened strands</em><br />
<em>So mingled with the bright?"</em><br />
<em>You hold some black threads in your hand;</em><br />
<em>Why can't they all be light?"</em><br />
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<em>"My son," soothed Mother's smiling voice,</em><br />
<em>"Your view is from below.</em><br />
<em>When I am through I'll beckon you.</em><br />
<em>And then, you too, can know.</em><br />
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<em>"You cannot see from 'neath my knee</em><br />
<em>What I can see from here.</em><br />
<em>So play awhile, my restless child,</em><br />
<em>And I will lift you near.</em><br />
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<em>When Mom was done, she cooed, "My son,</em><br />
<em>Come sit upon my knee.</em><br />
<em>Come quickly, crawl upon my shawl,</em><br />
<em>It's time for you to see."</em><br />
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<em>I soon found rest, upon her breast,</em><br />
<em>To see from Mama's side</em><br />
<em>To my delight, a sunset bright,</em><br />
<em>A view I'd been denied.</em><br />
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<em>"What wasn't known to you, mine own,</em><br />
<em>Is that another's hand</em><br />
<em>Had drawn for me to plainly see </em><br />
<em>A predetermined plan.</em><br />
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<em>"The course I took, I ne'er forsook.</em><br />
<em>A wiser One's design</em><br />
<em>He's placed a plan within my hand,</em><br />
<em>That was not really mine.</em><br />
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<em>"Bright threads alone could not have shown</em><br />
<em>The beauty of the rays;</em><br />
<em>One must weave night with daytime light</em><br />
<em>Or know a glary haze</em><br />
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<em>"What was to thee, where thou could see,</em><br />
<em>A messy underneath,</em><br />
<em>Was from my eyes a sweet surprise,</em><br />
<em>A lovely evening wreath.</em><br />
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<em>"What are You doing, Father dear?"</em><br />
<em>My aching heart doth sigh.</em><br />
<em>"Embroidered in my life I see</em><br />
<em>Some dark threads drawing nigh.</em><br />
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<em>"'Tis messy too, from earthly view</em><br />
<em>That I know here below.</em><br />
<em>Don't weave my life with shadowed strife; </em><br />
<em>Please send me only glow."</em><br />
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<em>I heard a loud, yet silent voice:</em><br />
<em>"Look unto Me, My child,</em><br />
<em>Just be about My business now;</em><br />
<em>I'll show you after while.</em><br />
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<em>"You need the night as well as light</em><br />
<em>To make you hold My hand.</em><br />
<em>You need the dark as well as bright</em><br />
<em>To do My perfect plan.</em><br />
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<em>"One day, twice born, I'll blow My horn.</em><br />
<em>And make you be as I.</em><br />
<em>I'll let you come to My own home,</em><br />
<em>Where you will never die.</em><br />
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<em>"'Tis then you'll find, dear child of Mine,</em><br />
<em>My plan was always best.</em><br />
<em>Just trust, don't worry, doubt, or fret.</em><br />
<em>Come unto me and rest.</em><br />
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<em>"So trust Me now, though furrowed brow</em><br />
<em>Seems oft thine earthly plight.</em><br />
<em>I'll hasten near to wipe your tear</em><br />
<em>That falleth through the night.</em><br />
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<em>"Just do My will and love me till</em><br />
<em>My face is in your sight'</em><br />
<em>Then you will see, 'twas best for thee--</em><br />
<em>Your Father's plan was right.</em><br />
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<em>----written by Dr. Jack Hyles</em><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>From my heart, </strong></em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Robyn</strong></em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-88976662378059245372012-07-30T07:00:00.000-05:002012-07-30T07:00:14.688-05:00Going For the GoldIt is that time...time for the 2012 Summer Olympics and whether you watch them, enjoy them or could care less, right now they are taking place in London. I enjoy following to see how the USA is doing and I thrill each time our country is able to medal. The Olympics brings together all the world nations and allows a healthy competition among them. The Olympians work hard and train as they race to reach a goal. The goal that they have their sights set on is the GOLD MEDAL! <br />
We, too, as Christians are in a race...the Christian race. We ought to be striving daily to reach a goal...that of gold in the Lord's eyes. We each will stand before the Lord and give an account of the things we have done in our own personal lives. We will not answer for our neighbor, family or friend, but simply for ourself. <em><strong>Romans 14:12</strong></em> reminds us of this by stating, <em><strong>"So then every one of us shall give account of himself to God."</strong></em> <br />
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<u>To be successful in a race there are a few things one must do</u>:<br />
<em>1. Train ahead of time </em><br />
<em>2. Persevere through the race</em><br />
<em>3. Never look back</em><br />
<em>4. Keep your eye on the prize</em><br />
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<u>The same principles apply in our Christian race:</u><br />
1. We must train daily by being in the Word of God (Joshua 1:8)<br />
We must train daily by talking with our God (Ps. 55:17)<br />
We must train by faithfully attending church (Heb. 10:25)<br />
We must train by exercising our spiritual muscles in the work of God (Eph. 6:7)<br />
2. We must keep going even when times get tough (Gal. 6:9)<br />
We must not quit running even when we are weary (2 Thes. 3:13)<br />
We must keep running even if noone runs with us (Joshua 24:15)<br />
We must remember for Whom we are running (Heb. 12:2)<br />
3. We must not get sidetracked by worldly temptations (Titus 2:12)<br />
We must not be discouraged by others (Ps. 56:9)<br />
We must not be swayed by those who continually look back (Gal. 6:7)<br />
We must not run looking back at what used to be (Luke 9:62)<br />
4. We must remember that there is a Judgment Seat one day (Rom. 14:10)<br />
We must remember that we will stand before a Holy God (Phil. 2:16)<br />
We must remember those who have run before us leaving us an example (Hebrews 11)<br />
We must remember that we will rejoice in Heaven one day (Phil. 2:16) <br />
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<strong><u><em>Competing for gold isn't an easy task, but when focused, determined and dedicated one can reach that goal.</em></u></strong> As Christians, we will face hard work; we will face obstacles; we will face setbacks; but, when we continue to run with our eyes on Jesus, we can finish our race and we can finish with the gold!!<br />
So, I plan to keep running as long as He gives me breath. I will fall down. I will get tired. I will stumble. I will, though, keep running till I reach Heaven. How about you? Have you given up? Have you gotten tired? Have you wearied while on your journey? It's not too late....just get up and keep going. Run your race and I will run mine. Then, in Heaven, together we can rejoice together on races run and jobs well done!<br />
So, my friend, I challenge you, along with me....GO FOR THE GOLD IN GOD'S EYES!<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong><em>From my heart,</em></strong></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><strong><em>Robyn</em></strong></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-45084400507847856072012-07-26T07:00:00.000-05:002012-07-26T07:00:14.172-05:00A Trip to The Bank<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsAEikpiMb8Hq-t5_unHwMW4JxyD4FDcKZBgX6fzsV3SDjv_rG2iVqss9QMOmdxnf5_VYEgavTd3iK5wPfanpT6mEMzPJgstDJhCoLNP9FqCs8GereCgXblZZZ9WTXjFgsoqZC1KyARkA/s1600/990201638_248_orig.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsAEikpiMb8Hq-t5_unHwMW4JxyD4FDcKZBgX6fzsV3SDjv_rG2iVqss9QMOmdxnf5_VYEgavTd3iK5wPfanpT6mEMzPJgstDJhCoLNP9FqCs8GereCgXblZZZ9WTXjFgsoqZC1KyARkA/s320/990201638_248_orig.JPG" width="210" /></a>The other day Jordan and I made a stop to the bank drive-thru to deposit a check. For whatever reason, all the lines seemed to be moving extremely slow this particular day. However, it appeared that I had picked the slowest line of them all. The lady in front of me was on her phone just chatting away. She hadn't even taken the container out in order to put her transaction in and send it through the transport tube. I kid you not, I sat there for about five minutes before she even turned to the transport tube. The next thing I know she is pushing the call button and talking to the person inside. Mind you, she has still not sent in a transaction of any kind. Well, as you can imagine, I sat there contemplating if I should put my car in reverse and choose a new lane. We had been sitting there so long my son began timing it. Needless to say, I was getting a little on the impatient side. You see, I had things to do and this lady was taking my time. I mean, really. Well, I had decided to back up and switch lanes. I look up in my mirror to check before moving and a car was pulling in behind me. I was stuck now. I remember muttering something about "hope you have time to wait lady because you will be here a while." That lady behind me couldn't hear me, but somehow grumbling made me feel better or so I thought. Next thing I know one of the tellers walks out and hands a transport tube to the lady in front of me....oh my!! Let's just say, I felt terrible!! Talk about conviction. Oy! I had been stewing and growing impatient thinking this lady was just taking her sweet time when all the while she couldn't do anything because there was not a container in the tube. I felt about an inch high. Now, I know I am probably the only person who has ever gotten impatient in a drive thru lane. Well, I finally had my turn, took care of my deposit and pulled out to leave. I left feeling convicted and asking God to forgive me. I also used what had happened to teach Jordan. Remember, my son was in the car the whole time. *sigh* <br />
I had some explaining to do and so, I did.<br />
You see this trip to the bank reminded me of a few things:<br />
1. My time is not any more important than anyone else's time. <br />
2. I need to work on my patience<br />
3. I need to remember that my little guy is always watching.<br />
Now, I don't think my reaction on this day was unique. If I had to guess, I am pretty sure there would be other ladies out there who would admit they have gotten impatient from time to time. I am really glad the Holy Spirit spoke up as I was pulling out of that bank. I am glad that I had an opportunity to talk to my son about my reaction to the lady sitting there and explain how I should have been patient and not thought my time to be more important. <br />
As I drove away, I thought of the verses in 2 Peter 1 that talk about how God gives to us all the things that we need for life and godliness. It goes on to list certain character traits that we are to have and one of them is patience. I need to work on my patience.<br />
The point of today's post is simply to show how daily instances can serve as reminders of things in our lives that we need to improve. I am thankful for these reminders and, as I said earlier, am thankful for the Holy Spirit. <br />
Until next time!<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em>From my heart,</em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em>Robyn</em></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-59429118376168460092012-07-23T07:00:00.000-05:002012-07-23T07:00:05.813-05:00Go Ahead...Just Have Fun<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Jordan and I were in the car the other day. He was in the back seat laughing about something. I can't remember what exactly. However, I remember looking at him and telling him "you remind me so much of your Papa." Now, his Papa is my dad. My dad is a funny man. I love to be around him and I love to laugh with him. There was something about how Jordan was laughing that just reminded me of dad. I, then, began to tell him how I had not ever seen a picture of my dad when he was a little boy and so, I had to imagine what he would have looked like. I often look at Jordan and am reminded of my dad. Anyways, I was telling Jordan I had seen pictures of his Nana when she was a little girl, but never of Papa like that. Jordan looks at me and as serious as could be says, "well, of course you never saw a picture of Papa as a little girl!" It dawned on me how what I had said had come out and both of us just started to laugh.<br />
We continued driving toward our home and I heard Jordan in the back seat singing. He wasn't singing any song I knew, but rather He was making up some silly song about nine years old and how they are the greatest. (Jordan is nine.) I asked him why he thought nine year olds were great and his response was "because I am nine." Then, he said, "When I am ten, I will say ten year olds are the greatest." We started laughing again. My Jordan is just crazy silly, but I LOVE it! Now, this was just a silly conversation between mom and son and wouldn't really mean anything to anyone else, but to Jordan and me it will always be a memory. <u>We laugh alot together and I am so thankful for that.</u> I am glad that my boys and I can be silly and have fun together because I know that these silly times will be ones they remember for years to come. <br />
When is the last time you laughed with your kids? It seems these days families are so busy with this, that and the other that they are missing out on enjoying the moments that they are together as a family. Our lives have become so scheduled (which is a good thing, don't get me wrong) that <em>we almost forget to make time for the fun things.</em><br />
The Bible speaks often of singing, laughing and rejoicing. It is clear to me that <em><strong>the Lord wants us to be a happy and cheerful people and that would apply to our families as well.</strong></em> Here are some familiar verses on this topic:<br />
<strong><em>Psalm 100:2 "Serve the Lord with gladness: come before his presence with singing."</em></strong><br />
<strong><em>Psalm 118:24 "This is the day which the Lord hath made; we will rejoice and be glad in it."</em></strong><br />
<strong><em>Isaiah 65:18 "But be ye glad and rejoice for ever in that which I create..."</em></strong><br />
<strong><em>Habakkuk 3:1 "Yet I will rejoice in the Lord, I will joy in the God of my salvation."</em></strong><br />
<strong><em>Philippians 4:4 "Rejoice in the Lord alway: and again I say, Rejoice."</em></strong><br />
As families in our daily activities, it is important that we learn to enjoy one another and being together. It is important that we learn to have fun and laugh with each other. We, as moms, need to teach our children to laugh, sing and rejoice. <strong><em><u>They need to see through our example that life is fun especially, when serving and living for the Lord.</u></em></strong> So, here are a few ideas of things a mom can do with her kids to <em>"<strong>just have some fun".</strong></em> These aren't anything new, but I thought I would just share some that we have done:<br />
1. Go outside and <em>play ball</em><br />
2. Have a <em>picnic lunch</em><br />
3. Play games together: <em>plan a game night</em> and let the kids pick the games<br />
4. Go to <em>the park</em><br />
5. <em>Build a fort</em> in the living room and sleep in it that night<br />
6. Have a <em>theme based supper</em> and try to talk with the accent of that nation (this can be quite amusing)<br />
7. Go <em>bowling</em> (this is one of my boys favorites)<br />
8. Make up<em> silly songs</em><br />
9. <em>Read books</em> together (when they are little and act out the characters)<br />
10. Have a family <em>pizza/movie night</em> <br />
11. Have <em>puppet shows</em><br />
12. Have a <em>Wii or X-box family fun night</em> (divide into teams and compete again each other)<br />
13. <em>Be involved</em> together<em> through your church</em> (this teaches them that serving the Lord is fun!)<br />
14. <em>Create traditions</em> that are special to your family; you don't have to be like everyone else. For example, our family every year on the night of Thanksgiving, we load into the car at about ten o'clock and drive around to all the stores just to see how many people are lining up to shop the deals. The boys think these shoppers are nuts and they get a kick out of this. After driving around, we always end up at Sonic for a treat. This year the boys were going on and on talking about how they should sell hot chocolate and treats because the people had been in line for hours upon hours. They just kept laughing and thinking up crazy things they could sell. They loved our adventure. This is crazy, I know, but it is a memory and the boys love it! <br />
15.<em> Utilize time in the car</em> with singing or just talking<br />
These are just simple ideas, but anyone can do them. Remember, your kids will grow up. (All too fast I might add) <br />
What type of atmosphere are we setting in our homes? Remember, "rejoice ALWAYS". Home can be a fun and happy place if we work to make it so.<br />
So, go have some fun today with your family!<br />
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<strong><em><span style="font-size: large;">From my Heart,</span></em></strong><br />
<strong><em><span style="font-size: large;">Robyn</span></em></strong>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-17675893205294410832012-07-19T07:00:00.000-05:002012-07-19T07:00:20.518-05:00Merciful to MeI don't know about you but I love music...good Christian music. I love to hear songs about grace and mercy. I love the old songs of the faith, you know, hymns. Recently, I sang in church and I chose the following song to sing: <br />
"Merciful To Me"<br />
written by Rodney Griffin<br />
Verse 1: The angry men were closing in; rocks were in their hands, <br />
A decent payment for her sin - now her life must end;<br />
But Jesus said, "Let he who is innocent cast your stone today,"<br />
I wasn't there to see her face, but I can almost hear her say,<br />
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Chorus: Merciful to me, when I deserved to die<br />
Merciful to me, my soul He brought new life;<br />
Nothing could I bring my debt to satisfy,<br />
<strong> Jesus was merciful; merciful to me.</strong><br />
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Verse 2: Satan's men were closing in, I knew what was in store,<br />
A decent payment for my sin, eternal fire and more;<br />
But Jesus said, "I have an announcement I'd like to make today,<br />
You see I have the scars to prove that I've taken this one's place."<br />
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Chorus: Merciful to me, when I deserved to die<br />
Merciful to me, my soul He brought new life;<br />
Nothing could I bring my debt to satisfy,<br />
<strong>Jesus was merciful; merciful to me.</strong><br />
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As I was finishing the second verse, I began to get a bit choked up....just thinking about the words and what Jesus had done for me, well, it was very overwhelming. I tried not to be shaken, but the words to the song and the thought of my Saviour giving His life for mine was too powerful and needless to say, I cried my way through the rest of the song. Embarrassing, right? Yes, some, but honestly, not really. I am glad to know that my heart has not grown cold to the mercy that Christ has shown me. I pray that I NEVER get over what He has done for me.<br />
Go back and read the accounts recorded in the Bible of the crucifixion of Jesus and you will be reminded of just how merciful He was to you and me. For those who have trusted Christ, we will never suffer the torments of Hell...the penalty deserved for our sin. <em><strong>The mercy of God overwhelms me</strong></em> and I hope that you, too, will remember the mercy that has been shown to you. <br />
<strong>The Bible is full of <em>verses about the mercy of God:</em></strong><br />
Lamentations 3:22 "<u>It is of the Lord's mercies that we are not consumed</u>, because his compassions fail not."<br />
Psalm 100:5 "For the Lord is good; <u>his mercy is everlasting</u>; and his truth endureth to all generations."<br />
Psalms 103:8 "<u>The Lord is merciful</u> and gracious, slow to anger, and plenteous in mercy."<br />
Psalms 136:4 "To him who alone doeth great wonders: for <u>his mercy endureth forever</u>." (In fact, this whole chapter is full of verses on His mercy.)<br />
Luke 6:36 "Be ye therefore merciful, <u>as your Father also is merciful</u>."<br />
<em>The lessons I took from this were:</em><br />
1. I need to<strong> never forget the mercy Christ has extended toward me</strong> and<br />
2. I need to <strong>show this same mercy to others</strong> around me.<br />
The definition of mercy as obtained from the dictionary is: compassionate or kindly forbearance shown toward an offender, an enemy, or other person in one's power; compassion; pity or benevolence<br />
The story found in John 8 is a wonderful example of the mercy of Christ. I can see it now the men in the Bible pointing their accusing fingers at this woman taken in adultery. Jesus bends over writing in the dirt. The pharisees and scribes are still questioning Jesus trying to get him to say this woman should be stoned. Jesus stands and responds in verse 7 with, "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her." Jesus bends over to write again and those in the crowd begin to disperse the Bible says, "being convicted by their own conscience" in verse 9. What an amazing story! We need to all remember that we are sinners and we need to remember to extend mercy to people when needed. I am not saying to sweep sin under a rug and just let it have it's way, but that we are to love the sinner and be merciful helping to restore them. <em>Can you almost hear her say?</em><br />
<em><strong> Merciful to me, when I deserved to die</strong></em><br />
<em><strong> Merciful to me, my soul He brought new life</strong></em><br />
<em><strong> Nothing could I bring, my debt to satisfy</strong></em><br />
<em><strong> Jesus was merciful, merciful to me.</strong></em><br />
So, I ask you the same question I asked myself, "How's your mercy: do you remember the mercy Christ showed to you and are you showing it to others"? <br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>From the Heart,</strong></em></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Robyn</strong></em></span><br />
<br />Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-73198591531555007602012-07-16T07:00:00.000-05:002012-07-30T02:08:27.444-05:00Youth Conference BoundDear Blog Friends,<br />
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA6pehFFIRee7uUf4zaWYyhg0ENuYc4HLU1hoja1PbY8JB8TuQ71NvpJYMvLb6VUmqN1PL9bT8pkhRMDV7l-DLDbLGrVOh-qCzIAHosVVm0BXHO-YXBsn7LhZPGDIcmH5_-JStNPd1gxY/s1600/Class.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjA6pehFFIRee7uUf4zaWYyhg0ENuYc4HLU1hoja1PbY8JB8TuQ71NvpJYMvLb6VUmqN1PL9bT8pkhRMDV7l-DLDbLGrVOh-qCzIAHosVVm0BXHO-YXBsn7LhZPGDIcmH5_-JStNPd1gxY/s1600/Class.jpg" /></a>My husband and I, along with nine of our awesome Calvary Baptist teens (a few are pictured here) are heading out today to attend a Youth Conference in Hammond, Indiana. The teens are excited and so are we. We have gone to this particular meeting for many years and always come home refreshed, revived and recharged.<br />
I am praying as we go for God to bless our time there. My own heart's desire is to be challenged from the preaching. I am praying that our young people will go with open hearts asking the Lord to speak to them as well. Yes, we want to have fun and we will, but we also want this trip to be one of spiritual refreshment for each one of us. <br />
<em><strong>Hebrews 4:16 tells us, "For the word of God is quick and powerful, and sharper than any twoedged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart."</strong></em><br />
<em><strong>2 Timothy 3:16 tells us, "All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness:"</strong></em> <em><strong><u>The Word of God is powerful and can change lives!</u></strong></em><br />
I have had people ask me before "Why do you take all these trips and take teens to camp and conferences? Don't you get tired of all the traveling and stuff?" Honestly, my answer would be "NO." I don't get tired of it because I know that these trips are so worth the results.<br />
<strong><em>One changed life is worth all the trips in the world</em></strong>. I have no idea how God is going to speak to a young person, but I know that He will if they are given every opportunity to hear Him speak. <br />
So, friend, if you don't mind please pray for our group as we travel and as we attend this conference.<br />
Thanks so much!<br />
I can't wait to tell you about all we will have done and have heard when I get back; so, stay posted!<br />
Until then,<br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><strong><em>From my Heart,</em></strong></span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><strong><em>Robyn</em></strong></span>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3032882287013359851.post-67810938951383889602012-07-13T07:00:00.000-05:002012-07-13T07:00:09.991-05:00Faith or Fear...which will you choose today?<div>
<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRXqScn2owvZLr7lGd3Ibqs3pt8kSs6W9tK890Tr7KmCRNan2ppqU3RLrmq2lle4nhlp_6sCkN6brASkQsytpkuOCJI27By0eEVqsf7WuGqLkg7xCBlgywg59Jx3Elwi-Hs0dTRG7Z2NA/s1600/All+things+ARE+possible.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="131" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgRXqScn2owvZLr7lGd3Ibqs3pt8kSs6W9tK890Tr7KmCRNan2ppqU3RLrmq2lle4nhlp_6sCkN6brASkQsytpkuOCJI27By0eEVqsf7WuGqLkg7xCBlgywg59Jx3Elwi-Hs0dTRG7Z2NA/s200/All+things+ARE+possible.jpg" width="200" /></a>Recently I had a conversation with someone about something that was somewhat of a burden in their life. I guess it was more of a "what do I do type situation?" for this person. They were trying to make a right decision, but in doing what they thought to be right would be missing out on something spititually good for them. Now, that is what I would call a perlexing circumstance. So, it got me to thinking... </div>
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In conversation with this person, I told them I would be praying about the situation for and with them. Their response was thankful, but IDK...meaning, I don't know. It was like they were throwing their hands up in the air and giving up because they saw no hope in sight for the situation they were in...their faith, at the time, seemed small. Unfortunately, life can be like this for all of us at times. We face a situation and we face it one of two ways: FAITH or FEAR? </div>
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Do we trust God to work all things out for our good or do we fear and miss out on the blessings He had in store for us? The Bible is filled with examples of people who were weak in their own flesh and feared the choices they had to make, but these people chose to follow God and put their faith in Him to help them through their decisions and choices. </div>
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Moses: He stuttered and felt insecure in his abilities...what if he had not trusted God? Would the people have crossed the Red Sea? Hmm...</div>
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David: Saul sought constantly to kill him...what if David had run and hid forever? Would he have been called "a man after God's own heart?" Hmm..<br />
Joseph: Falsely accused; imprisoned and forgotten...I think if I were him I totally would have given up...what if he had not stayed true to God through all his trials? Would he have helped to save a nation from starving and have helped his family? Hmm...</div>
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These are just a few examples of people who overcame a fear of "what if" and simply learned to have faith and trust that God knew best.<br />
<u>How can we grow our faith:</u></div>
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<em><strong>1. Stay in our Bible DAILY Rom. 10:17 </strong></em> Faith will come the more we are in the Word of God </div>
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<strong><em>2. Stay in church every time the doors</em> <em>are open Heb. 13:7</em></strong> We are given men of God who exhort and teach us from the Word of God. The more we hear the Word of God, the more our faith can grow. Plus, in church, you will be around others who are growing and who are striving to grow in their faith too...this is an encouragement for you to keep on going.</div>
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<em><strong>3. Stay praying fervently Psalms 5:3 </strong></em> God should hear from us every morning and this verse tells us to "look up" meaning to look to God. He is the answer for everything in our lives. </div>
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These are three very simple steps that will help our faith to grow. <u>There is no secret recipe, but rather daily steps that will keep us focused on God and on His strength instead of our own fears.</u> </div>
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I am reminded of Matthew 17:20 where it speaks of faith moving mountains...that is what I want in my life...a MOUNTAIN MOVING FAITH. I don't want my fears of "what if" to keep me from the blessings God has in store, the victories He has planned, and the growth that He intends for me. </div>
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So, today I have pondered a bit my own life and the faith or lack thereof that I have when it comes to certain areas. I have to admit, I have some fears about certain things in my life. I have allowed these fears to stop me from doing all that I believe God would like to do in my life. </div>
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This recent conversation made me assess my own FAITH/FEAR factor...I have some improvements to make. I am going to be praying for the situation my friend brought to me and I am going to work on improving my own faith. </div>
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I sure am grateful for the lessons God brings my way. It is good to know God is still trying to teach me and I pray that I never stop learning.</div>
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So, how is YOUR faith? Are you living with the FAITH FACTOR or the FEAR FACTOR? </div>
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<strong><u>Remember, Romans 4:20 says</u></strong>, "He staggered not at the promise of God through unbelief; <strong><u>but was strong in faith, giving glory to God."</u></strong> </div>
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You and I, too, can claim the promises of God with full confidence!</div>
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I challenge you today...claim faith in God and see what He can do through and with you!</div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>From my Heart,</strong></em></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><em><strong>Robyn</strong></em></span></div>Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03208203103102405038noreply@blogger.com0